A Little History - I

I first met Mistress Cindy online over ten years ago.  We were both members of a yahoo group – but I do not remember which particular one.  Instant messaging is a wonderful thing.  I IM’d Mistress Cindy and we began a conversation.  We were both quite interested in bondage and had experienced some amount of play with others.  Interestingly, we were both on the submissive side of the equation.  It was also clear from the beginning that we both preferred strict bondage.  Nothing bugged us both more than looking at images that would have the submissive in loose ties, escapable mummy wraps and comfortable situations.  People – a single layer of plastic wrap over a torso is not really bondage.  Five layers of shrinkable pallet wrap with just a breathing tube totally covering the body, feet en pointe, hands balled – that is good for starters.  Uuummmm.  But I digress.

I have always considered myself to be a pretty good judge of people.  I am amazed how through IM it is almost easier to assess people than if they were standing right in front of you.  First physical clues are not there to deceive you.  You get a much better sense of the person.  IM allows you to determine idiots in a second, self indulged people in a minute, normal people over a conversation and truly intelligent, quality people over the course of several conversations.  Well it was very clear that Mistress Cindy fell into the last category.  We had wonderful conversations, exchanged pictures from the web, exchanged pictures of ourselves in bondage and carried on a wonderful online conversation.

As you might imagine, we discussed from time to time what we might do if we ever got together.  Right from the beginning, Mistress Cindy told me that if we ever got together, it would only be with Her as the dominant.  I am sure part of that was intelligent, self protection on Her part, but She was also interested in exploring that side.  I certainly agreed that that would certainly be acceptable and appropriate.  I also told Her that I owned a stainless steel chastity belt that I would lock myself in while we were together and allow Her to control the keys.  This made Her very happy.  I knew there was a big risk in doing that, as the belt is no CBx000 toy.  One’s entire package is inaccessible completely with some parts behind two layers of steel.  When locked the hasps are not accessible and the steel is very thick.  Without the keys, my only choice would be a locksmith – and that would be quite embarrassing.  But I felt I knew Her well enough to allow that if we ever got together…

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